By Tamara Elizabeth
Fabulously Fifty and Reflecting It! – Discovering My Lovable Me is my story, a story of a woman who has discovered how through my reflections, the truly fabulously lovable me; the authentic me that I was born to be. Today I am a confident, lovable courageous woman who realizes that fairytales don’t always have the ending of children’s books, but they can have the ending and continuation of what we truly
want and believe. I have sass, courage, spunk, determination and attitude.
This book is the result of hard work and perseverance on a self-love journey. It is the reflection of my life and from these reflections I have created a workbook for women traversing their own transitions to help them keep focused and heading in the direction of success. Each essay will strike a cord with the reader, as I have been where she has journeyed.
I am your voice. I speak as you. I have been where you have travelled.
I have finished licking my wounds and jumped back into the ring.
I want you to understand that I have walked in your shoes and have never given
up. You can restart your life at any time you want and still succeed in whatever you
desire. This is not always easy but if it was then the journey wouldn’t be quite as
Do You Find Yourself Asking These Questions?
-Why is this happening to me?
-Am I to blame?
-Will I survive and make it on my own?
-Where do I go from here?
-Who am I – really?
-Why I feel lost and alone?
-Why am I not lovable?
-Is this my fault?
-What planet am I really on?
-Am I crazy or just lost my mind?
If you do, then Fabulously Fifty and Reflecting It! – Discovering My Lovable Me is
just the book for you. So sit back and enjoy discovering 7 ways on how to tackle those
nagging questions and get back to business of living life as the perfect lovable you.
Reflect on the stages in your life that has let you to this point:
Every situation and challenge happened as it was meant to because you are here to learn from our
experiences. So look as each stage of your life as a gift to be opened and displayed on
your shelf of successes.
Reflect on your life and state it in ONLY six words:
Life can get pretty overwhelming at times. So close your eyes, take 5 deep breaths
and let your mind wonder as a child does looking at daisies in a field. Once you are
relaxed describe your moment in time in 6 words. Once you have chosen the perfect
six words, feel the release. Life doesn’t appear so complicated. You can feel simplicity
take over and now you can tackle this situation with clear thoughts, balanced emotions and
Reflect on the tiny steps you need to take to achieve your future desires:
Thinking about the future is about beginning with each day and living in the
moment. Remember you have to start the race in order to finish it. Each step you
take along that course gets you one more step to finishing. Time doesn’t matter just
the journey and the finish line.
Reflect on how to manifest your universal abundance:
Be careful of your thoughts and words. They have tremendous power. What you
think is what you are – the intensity and quality of your thoughts impact how you manifest your life
greatly whether you realize it or not. Realize your right to an abundant life. The
universe offers you everything for you to feast on – you just have to pick up the plate
and stand at the buffet.
Reflect on your fears and don’t let them control you:
Fears appear as monsters lurking in the shadows of your life because of your need
to control your future. Security of knowing the unknown derives from low self-love.
When your self-esteem dips below the “fill line”, the ugly beast of fear rises up and
tries to halt you in your path. Fear keeps us “stuck” unwilling to move forward
outside of our comfort zone. But to bloom and blossom we need to feel those butterflies.
They fly in formation to let us know we are on to something. We are growing we are
leaving the familiar for the unknown we are doing what we are meant to be doing all along.
Reflect on your challenges from the past – briefly and learn from them:
Learning to accept and allow – when you let go and allow the lessons of your life to
move you forward, you will realize that without the challenges you had to hurdle
you would not be the person you are today. The good, the bad, and the very ugly of
situations and relationships are all part of my mosaic.
Reflect on your passions and celebrate them:
You find your authentic passions by digging deep. Discover the things that carbonate
your blood and keep you in the present. Your pesky “inner child” wants to keep you
stuck in the past where she can control you. You can only grow and move forward
while your feet are firmly in the present. So which do you chose? That’s right – take
the time to discover your passions.
Tamara Elizabeth is a speaker, author, self love coach, radio host, a master motivator of women in transition, conductress of motivational seminars, professional photographer, small space designer, lover of social media, mother of 5, and a fabulously loveable woman after her first 50 years. She is determined to create a revolution of women.
Tamara started her life over at fifty and believes that if she can do it, any woman can. That’s when she decided to take her experiences and help others with her latest book, Fabulously Fifty and Reflecting It! – Discovering My Loveable Me.
I have 4 greatest accomplishments in my life – my 4 grown children. My next greatest joy is my step son that I have had the honor of nurturing for the past 7 years.
Visit her website at www.moximize.me.
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